Eleven participated in Tokyo rattan kindergarten sharing sessions, plus the usual graduate school of Chinese Academy of Sciences on the development of children’s education, so many children’s education courses read down, the biggest feeling is that every Chinese parents are unhappy Childhood, so all in the fight to study the global concept of education, hoping to give children the best education. However, again Niubi’s educational philosophy, bluntly arrived but four words, to put it bluntly four words:
Say! pass! body! teach!
However, it seems that not many parents think of these four words.
Parents of our generation, who fight for their children to buy and buy, want to give him the best things in the world, even a piece of soap, a bottle of shower gel. Furthermore, we dare to study, learn child care education, spent tens of thousands a year to the early childhood education center parent-child swimming pool. I used to be such a mom. I bought a box of boxes of toys, one more than one luxury, one bigger than the other, but the children lost most of their interest after spending a few days. At this time, I found out that he likes to play with my cell phone.
why? Because the phone will shine it? Because the phone looks fun? Acoustic optoelectronic toys which is not fun than the phone?
The answer is very simple, because when I was with him, always sitting on his side while playing mobile phones; feeding time, one hand to take the bottle with a mobile phone; sleep to sleep, he lying on my shoulder, I single-handedly holding him play cell phone. For eight months, he was naturally interested in watching me play a tile. He loves everyone’s cell phone, including a stranger’s cell phone in the elevator, and wants to reach for it when he sees it.
I was wondering if he’d read a book in his hand as soon as he was born, and he would not like to draw a picture now. A ready book cover full of books and a variety of friends to send expensive children’s books, one have never opened, bought from the United States a hundred dollars a book, I thought he would like, But that is, turn a few times and then thrown to the corner. There is nothing comparable to the excitement every time he sees my cellphone, and the screen can be drawn with your fingers without teaching.
I suddenly realized that children’s imitation ability beyond my imagination. I always thought he was too young, what education is too early, he let me see people from birth to every step of development and change. Everything is so fast.
Many people in the sharing group at night shared their experiences. Some people say that Montessori has made a big difference. Some people say how much Talent regards talent. Some people say that international schools are the best choice. Some people say that the most basic education in public schools solid. However, while all education experts are saying that family education is the most important, it seems that every parent thinks his home is very happy and does not have any problems. School education plays a decisive role.
But recalling my childhood education, those who directly attack their own character growth are all from the family. I can hardly remember what teacher has hit me to make me become like. For example, when my family said I was singing and running, I never heard songs from the age of five or six. For example, my relatives always made me joke at the party that made me embarrassed that I now have difficulty in participating in group activities. I think perfect family education does not mean just being happy and happy with three people and one family. For example, I often teach children in all kinds of courses, if the teacher to stay homework, 90% of people are copying each other (I too), or bought a class late class (I too). Parents are like this, children can not copy it? How many parents read books everyday, can children like to read books? Parents are idle all right watching television to buy buy, on what basis requires children to study well. Think of these, it shudders.
I always remember one of my boss’s little things.
My boss is a particularly overbearing man, I first saw him feel very scared, like a triad. I am his assistant, so I took it for granted that I should do some work. But every time, he is very polite and polite to say thank you. He said thank you once, I shuddered once, feeling that I was not doing well enough to make him so polite, is not it my job? Thanks to thank you? Once I could not bear to say to him: “Boss, do not thank, too kind, scary.” The boss said: “I am a child, I want to lead by example.” Later, I never refused Thank you, though I still not used to it.
It was a very small affair, when I had no children, but reminded me of what it means to lead by example. Lead by example is not installed, not in the presence of children into another look. To lead by example is a habit, a routine, a thing that people can see but do not mind. If you lost something good and adult as an adult, get yourself back as much as you can. Not come back for a while, but always come back.